Wednesday, February 19, 2014

Sophie

Winter has been long and snowy and for Sophie it has been a dreamland! Why it is fun to play frisbee in 10 inches of snow or bury her nose in the snow, or jump snow drifts is beyond me. However, she is a black lab and that's what they do. What they don't do is run and hide when the snow melts...unless of course you are Sophie. 

Today's temps are in the mid 30's, sun is shining and the snow on the roof is melting. This, in Sophie’s world makes sounds that are too creepy to listen to. So for her, huddled on Mommy's side of the bed with her head buried in the pillow is the best place to be on such a day.

I remember my youngest daughter being frightened of thunder storms. It was a very real fear of hers that took years to overcome. At that first clap of thunder she would run to me for reassurance that we would be safe. I would sit with my arms around her and tell stories of my childhood watching thunderstorms with my father. We would sit in our garage and watch nature's magic as the storm would literally roll across the fields and soon be pounding our drive. One story led to questions of "were you afraid", "did the rain really look like it was rolling"?  The storm would be long gone before we noticed the silence. A quick hug and kiss and off she would go, until the next storm. 
 
In life the moments of reassurance can calm fears, build confidence and show someone just how important they are.

Have a great day everyone!

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